Something Special: Two Important Lessons
- Sana
- Apr 27
- 5 min read
Updated: Jun 20
I’m a firm believer that once you create any form of art and release it into the world it takes on its own identity. Whether it's a video, music, a painting, it can represent different things to people over a course of time. Much is highly dependent on what a person needs, and how the work resonates or/and fulfills that need.
When I look at Something Special, I see so many lessons about love and life. Inspired by my grandparents, the new blush of love can make you feel like you are living in a beautiful song.
“Like a songWhere we belong
And we’re living in..”
Everything looks lovely! But Something Special is so much more than a
salute to the first blush of love. It actually is more about persevering together and standing up for eachother even when your loved ones are not so enthused. The song has so many layers, but there are two important lessons I’d love for everyone to walk away with.
The first thing is to truly enjoy each other no matter what. The song starts w/ “See the trees, golden leaves rolling in the wind, the sun is rising, and it’s shining then it sets again. We talk and then we reminisce, we know we found something special..”
The paragraph is about a couple that is enjoying their time together. They’re looking at the wonders of nature all around them, conversing about life and the times they’ve lived together. This points to a deepened relationship or at the very least one with shared experiences and simpatico alignment on some foundational interests or hobbies. There’s reciprocity, and an implied understanding of each other. Love is definitely a two way street, and anchored by mutuality. The song clearly infers that there is some pushback on their relationship but:“Our hearts will stay in this love so strong..”
“So let’s watch the rain and wind blow..”
In other words, it doesn’t matter what the naysayers are saying. They love each other, and will continue to enjoy life by their own standard. The latter is so important to grasp as so many people miss out on enjoying their loved ones because they are waiting for ideal situations. The song infers that ideal is when you’ve actually found the right person to spend the rest of your life with.
Every hour, minute, and second is ideal because you’ve found “The One”. The second thing I want to make sure is not missed is to never take true love for granted. In the song, “we found something special” is said several times to drive home the point. Special means extraordinary, not common, and therefore worthy to be nurtured, and taken care of as is anything of value. In the song, both people know they have something special which goes a long way towards keeping love alive. Let's look at what special really means for a moment.
Why “Special,” “Unique,” and “Interesting” Matter
When people ask about what makes you “special,” “unique,” or “interesting,” they’re really inviting you to share something meaningful or personal—something that stands out in the mosaic of who you are. These words are beautifully subjective; what feels extraordinary to you might seem commonplace to someone else, and vice versa.
But that’s precisely the point. Using subjective terms opens the door to all sorts of answers. Whether it’s your knack for baking the world’s flakiest croissants on a Sunday morning, or the time you wandered the streets of Paris with nothing but a faded Michelin guide, these prompts let you define your own highlight reel. There’s no wrong answer because everyone’s “something special” is theirs alone.
Think of it like being at a dinner party where the host, maybe channeling a bit of Jimmy Fallon, wants everyone to feel seen and celebrated. Asking for what’s “special” or “interesting” helps break the ice, uncover hidden stories, and remind us that connection is all about understanding each other’s quirks, talents, and perspectives. So, the next time someone invites you to share what sets you apart, remember: subjective questions are an open field. Lean into your own definition—and you might just inspire someone else to see the value in what makes them unique, too.
Making “Something Special” About You
Have you ever been asked, “What is something special, unique, or interesting about you?”—you might have felt the same mild panic as when someone at a family gathering nudges you and says, “So, tell us a fun fact!” What this question is really getting at is that little spark—some story, talent, experience, or quirk that sets you apart or brings joy to share. It’s not about being the most extraordinary person in the room but about honoring those details and lived moments that make you, well, you.
Maybe it’s the fact that you’ve visited a handful of countries and navigated train stations in languages you barely speak. Perhaps you spend Sunday mornings volunteering at the community garden, or you’ve mastered the perfect grilled cheese (with the secret, of course, being a sprinkle of parmesan on the outside). Maybe you bike through your city’s parks at sunrise, or you pen sci-fi stories late into the night just because it makes you happy.
At its heart, the question is an opening—to celebrate the particulars of your story, to let others glimpse what makes your experience of life distinct, curious, or delightful. Like any good song, it’s less about being “the best” and more about being authentic—sharing something real that lets someone see you in a new light. Let's someone see that you are truly something special.
There are many takeaways from the song about love and life, being special and connecting w/ your special counterpart are all part of the story. I wanted to make sure that these sentiments are not lost. As I write this post, I’m reminded of Paul Newman, who I loved in Cool Hand Luke. Many of you know, I’m a classic movie buff. Anyway, he said the following which really speaks to preserving the “special” factor in his marriage.“I don't like to discuss my marriage, but I will tell you something which may sound corny but which happens to be true. I have steak at home. Why should I go out for hamburger?”
They were married till Paul Newman passed away in 2008. At the time, they had been married for 50 years. Now that’s Something Special.. You can check out a snippet of the radio edit here, and don't forget to sign up for VIP access, and oyu'll get a link to our Something Special Collector's Bundle just for signing up. Follow me across platforms:
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